As a young lady, the one thing I neglect to comprehend about our general public is the ceaseless need to accuse the casualty for the culprit’s activities. It truly makes me think about whether we genuinely don’t have the foggiest idea about the distinction between the two!
Living in a general public with conventional perspectives, alongside a world brimming with moderates, isn’t simple.
A couple of days prior, I experienced a stunning episode that has abandoned me with terrible outrage.
This is what happened:
Like an energized 16-year-old, I went lehenga looking for a cousin’s wedding at Lajpat Nagar with my mother and maasi.
Keeping in mind the end goal to perceive what it looked like on me, my mom solicited one from the bhaiyas to enable me to attempt it on.
He at that point exploited by moving up my T-shirt, that I was wearing as of now, to take cover behind the pullover and attempted to fondle my bosoms. He did this with such ease and speed, I didn’t be able to stop it.
Truly, it appeared as though he had drilled it or something.
Intuitively, I pressured him to disclose more than what would have been prudent away and yelled at him. My mother, sitting close-by, had seen what had happened however didn’t state anything by then of time.
Incredibly, my mother, who I’d jump at the chance to accept is an extremely liberal, “cool” parent, began to yell and place all the fault on me. So did my maasi.
They stated, “You should’ve known better.”
“I let you know not to wear such a tight best.”
“Aise howdy hota hai. Sab ladke aise hote hain. Uski thodi na galti hai.”
My first lesson in lewd behavior originated from my own special mother however all it showed me was that it was my blame.
This debilitated mindset is the thing that should be changed generally all ladies will be stuck in shackles of dread and never have the opportunity they merit, and all men will think they have the privilege to sexually irritate anybody and escape with it.
Why do you think right around 93 ladies are being assaulted in India consistently?
I wish I could’ve slapped him, however that is the place the basic issue is. On the off chance that I truly needed to make a move, I could have documented an objection however I didn’t.
Prior to this occurrence, I’d generally believed that on the off chance that somebody at any point took a stab at acting improperly with me, I would do this, and I would do that. Be that as it may, did I really isn’t that right? No.
Be that as it may, at that point when something like this happens, why is our first sense dependably to put the fault on the casualty? Why is it not to make a move or even identify?
I’ll disclose to you why. Since even the most taught of us can have inconvenient perspectives, which demonstrates that somebody’s training level is not what truly matters. It is, truth be told, our attitude, our ethics, and our point of view.